Thursday, August 25, 2011

Traversed Puerto Prinsesa Palawan

        Last Friday, August 19, 2011, my husband, Bobot and I left Manila aboard Zest Air to Puerto Prinsesa. Our flight was delayed for an hour. We were supposed to depart 3:30 PM but was able to fly by 4:30PM.

When we reached Puerto Prinsesa Airport it was already 6:15PM. We hired a tricycle which I found so amusing and asked the driver to bring us to the House of Big Brother where we were booked with another couple who were a brother and a sister in SFC (Rodel and Aileen), for four nights. After changing, we headed to the conference site at the Puerto Prinsesa City Coliseum. Before proceeding in the venue, we looked for a place to dine in and we found Pares Resto where I ordered rice with boneless bangus, salted egg, tomatoes and seaweed while my hubby had super tapsilog meal. It rained that night and drenched, we entered the venue. What a familiar feeling! A night with our brothers and sisters altogether praising God.  The first talk was a great starter with a priest as our speaker. He was so cool and  very confident in delivering his  talk. It was a night of music for the Lord and I  knew from the start that its going to be a fantastic weekend ahead.
     The second day started with a worship and a breakfast with our group from SFC Sto Tomas. We had rice and breaded pork for breakfast before heading to our chosen workshop, One Nation, where we will have a Palawan tour through the Palawan Heritage Center museum and a film showing. The workshop was inspirational as we were given a grand time in the Puerto Prinsesa's hightech museum with a hologram Tagbanua explaining their heritage to us. The museum was not as big as I thought but it had important artifacts of Palawan shown on display or through wall photographs or with the use of their touch screen computers and telephone-operated screens. However, they did not allow cameras inside. After the museum tour, a film about Ninoy Aquino's last journey was shown highlighting his heroism and love for the Philippines which inspired most of our younger brothers and sisters who might not know what happened during the People Power days. We had a group sharing and the activity aroused the Filipinos in us. 
We went back to the hotel where we spent the next few hours resting. At 4PM, we visited Bona's Chaolong where we ordered with delight their bestseller Chaolong pork or beef stew. We were so excited while waiting thinking that its the best soup in town. Lo and behold, the soup arrived! It  tasted sweet and salty and sad to say, I really did not enjoyed it as much as I wanted to. I realized I was never a fan of any Vietnamese food. Well, most of us did not liked it so much but some of our brothers finished theirs with delight. And we headed back to the coliseum for the Saturday mass, dinner and conference talks. 

    The second night was a blast. The two talks were given by a sister and a brother with so much to offer. They were so blessed with sense of humor and they knew how to get across their audience with so much information and inspiration. What struck my hubby and I were the couple who shared about their failure to have a child and how they accepted their fate when two different doctors told them that the husband would not be able to produce the sperm count required for child bearing. 
The story was so close to my heart because it was also our desire to have our own baby. 
We were married for one year  and three months already and we are still trying to have a child. But God assured us of His faithfulness that night. Truly we are blessed. We went home at 11PM.

     On the third day of the conference, we had to wake up as early as 4PM as we were required to attend the ANCOP global walk starting from the Puerto Prinsesa baywalk to the coliseum. An exercise was lead by a tito from Couples for Christ Puerto Prinsesa and we followed the exercise in glee. We had great fun walking for 5 kilometers for a wonderful cause of sending our poor brothers and sisters to school through ANCOP Foundation. It was a great deal for me as I was supporting the cause for a few years now and was able to send an elementary and a highschool kids to school. 


The last session was given after the 9:00 AM Sunday mass. Bro Shok who was a wonderful speaker lead the crowd into an enlightening and heartwarming worship. The sharing of a priest who joined the conference awakened our parochial hearts, a sister who suffered from an illness which found sense of belongingness, a couple who were financially challenged but were immensely blessed in service, and Palawan governor Bro. Baham each gave their share of God with us. The conference was highlighted with the group in a chain of prayers as they were lead into a worship while touching the cross on a network of hand over another's. After the wonderful Stronghold conference, we were promised by God a wonderful tour and He did not fail us.
 
       My husband, our roommates and I were fetched by our tour guides, Zandro, and headed to Honda Bay for our Island hopping tour package. We were brought to a store where we rented snorkels for P150 each and an underwater camera case for P250 before heading to the port where a boat was waiting for us to bring us to Snake Island. The trip was a long one, about 30-45 minutes and it rained and we were tossed by the waves but it was still an enjoyable ride despite the rains. The rain stopped as soon as we set foot on the Snake Island where a buffet was awaiting.

Praise be to God! We had a feast and enjoyed  grilled talong, sugpo, adobo, mangga't alamang, banana and a cold coke. We enjoyed it so much because we did not have our lunch before leaving the conference. It was after only about 5 minutes when we decided to go snorkeling. The boatman assisted us in the deep part of the snorkeling area. It was such a sight seeing big yellow fishes, blue koi-like fish and other smaller colorful fish swimming about and around us while the boatman fed them with the bread we bought from the store earlier. The boatman was so swift and I admired him for his moves underwater while pressing our camera for a nice shot of us while snorkeling. It was tiring breathing through the snorkels and we decided to rest and just enjoyed the warm water. 

And we did enjoyed the beach all the more because our boatman impressed us with his knowledge on how to take wonderful photos. I realized that through the seasons these boatmen learned how to take picture from the tourists they had before and these had become their talent and additional skills. 





     After Snake Island, we were brought to Pambato Reef and to our horror, we were greeted by numerous jellyfish as big as a volleyball. We decided not to go to the water for another reef and fish mingling but after seeing our companions rising from the water with great smile and amazement on their faces, we changed our minds and asked our boatman to assist us again. And what a great sight it was indeed! Those were the most colorful corals I'd ever seen, blue, pink and purple corals while huge colorful fishes swim around us. However, I had to jump up the floater because of the huge jellyfish beside me. I panicked but was able to restore composure when the jellyfish slowly swam farther. We just had around 5 minutes on the water because our boatmen were requested to leave to prevent overstaying on the raft. 


        We were brought to our hotel by the tour van satisfied and hungry at the same time. We took our bath and prepared for a dinner date with our group at the Badjao Seafront. We hired a tricycle whose driver was very much willing to take us there and agreed to fetch us after for P150 which was a pay after deal. The small bridge crossing the mangroves or bakawan which was the entrance to the place had a welcoming atmosphere. It lead us to the resto entrance where piano music was being played while our group seated at the center of the resto already binging on the feast. We had our dinner ordered earlier by one of our sis,  Meane, so we only waited a while.
 The four of us  shared our meal and had more than enough. We had to take home our leftovers. It was such a romantic  night and I thank God that we decided to follow our group. We almost did not go because of my hubby's headache. I was glad we came.
      The next day, the four of us who enjoyed each others' company the whole time, needed to be ready by 6:30AM as our tour guide would be fetching us that time. But before they arrived, we surprised one of our brothers, Wilson, for his birthday. After singing "Happy Birthday" our guide arrived just in time. We fetched two more groups before heading to the Subterranian River. 

It was an hour-long drive before reaching the docking area where we'll ride a boat to the Underground River. The twenty-minute boat ride was very relaxing. The rock formation surrounding the waters were so soothing to the eyes and we just fell silent as our eyes  feast on the beauty around us. Alas, we reached the Underground River beach!

Fine sand greeted us as we set foot ashore. We have to hurry as more tourists would be there and we  wouldn't want to be waiting for a long queue  for a boat going under the world's famous cave.  We were given a  head gear and a life jacket. The life jacket had been a friend these past days. After, registration, we took a short walk along a road of wood planks, the gigantic trees already overwhelming us. 
They warned us to be careful with our things as monkeys were all over the place who'd grab any food their eyes would set upon. We were also expecting  bayawaks to cross the road anytime as we walked but no monkey nor lizard were visible that time. By the time we reached the  embarking area, other tourists were already on line waiting for their turn. Of course, we were so excited. Who wouldn't when you know you'd be seeing one of the Philippines great wonder. Our turn came and we couldn't wait. 

Our boatman, Mang Rogelio remarked "Di naman kayo excited?". Then he started paddling. As we enter the dark cave he began his very informative yet humorous tales about the underground river. Boatmen like him were trained as tour guides while navigating the cave. They knew the figures, the dates, the names and whatever history therein. Other than the facts, he was so funny as he shared some jokes about the cave. He said that the small bats were called a different name- bata. He showed us stalagmites and stalactites forming different interesting figures such as mushroom, papaya, puso ng saging, cucumber, the Nativity,the Last Supper, a cathedral,a candle, a king, a guard, an angel, a sexy lady they call Sharon Stone, and others which are even sparkling due to rich mineral deposit. 
How wonderful it was to see great wonders underneath the mountain. Later on we found out that the water is brackish since it is there where the saltwater and freshwater meet. Fish abounds there, too. However since it is declared a national protected area, fishing and swimming are already prohibited. We also learned that not only bats inhabit the cave but swallows or balinsasayaw are familiar flyers in the cave. 
Enjoying the 30-minute Underground River experience is an understatement. We thanked the boatman as we leave and the smile seemed not to leave our faces. Before leaving we were able to see a bayawak and it was the biggest  bayawak I had ever seen. Monkeys now out of their hiding places stared as our boat leave the island. We then went back to Sabang beach. A few meters away the port where our van was parked. It was as beautiful as Boracay shore only the sand is not as white and a few dogs roamed the place. Another bountiful meal awaited and we once again binged. We enjoyed sinigang na buko,  grilled pork, kangkong stew, adobong manok, tuna belly, ensaladang pipino, banana to name a few.  Tasting tamilok was an extra challenge. It tasted like oyster but since my mind reminded me that its worm-like and slimy made me want to vomit. Good thing the vinegar made great wonder. The four of us had a piece each and our faces expressed a promise not to eat another.
After eating tamilok


Before eating tamilok
The walk towards the waiting van was a good one passing by beautiful rest houses along the way. Our ride to the Ugong Rock took about 15 minutes. After a short briefing and signing a waiver, we were given a pair of gloves and a head gear each. Our guide lead us into the rock mountain were we would experience spelunking or caving. 

The passageways were so narrow I thought I won't fit through. I had to congratulate myself for climbing the rock wall with the use of a knotted rope. Honestly, I feared my husband or I would fall and break our spines but thank God we're not that old not to flex our bones for the climb. Lo and behold, we reached the top of the cave. Our gasping for air was replaced with another blows of heart beats upon laying our eyes on the zipline we had to use to go down. It was my first zipline and I wasn't sure if I was excited or if I was frightened for my life. It would be the longest 20 seconds of my life, I thought. 
We just joked around to ease our tension and decided who'd go down first. I was the second from the group following my hubby and when I saw how gracefully Bobot went ziplining I envied him and relieved that he survived it. Then, its my turn. I had to make sure my harness was in place and I asked the man assisting us to re-check twice before releasing me. And when they released me, I had to scream and what a scream it was. One of the screams was a praising to God as I yelled "I love you, Lord!" at the top of my lungs. Before I knew it three men were releasing me from the rope. I was free. I was alive and whole. It was a great awesome feeling. The van followed us since it was a field away (about 300 meters) from the Ugong Rock. We were allowed to sleep during the trip to the Crocodile Farm. Holding a baby crocodile was a strange feeling. I was afraid it would bite but was relieved upon seeing the mouth was tied and had my photo taken with it. Bobot refused because he hates reptile smell. 
The Crocodile Farm was smaller than I thought and contrary to what I knew that it houses hundreds of crocs, it only had few mature crocs. However, they have at least ten hatchlings for every age up to 1  year. I did not have a great time there because aside from muddy roads there were very few animals, aside form the crocs in their care. Maybe because they were just rescued from the wild to be protected. But as I saw the animals, I pity them because they didn't look too happy to be in that place alone in  a cage. We proceeded to Mitra's Ranch, ranch house of former Speaker of the House of Representatives Ramon Mitra. We just enjoyed the Honda Bay view as the ranch has the grandest view of it. No wonder why the late Ramon Mitra opted to stay in Palawan. Next stop was Baker's Hill where I planned days ahead of buying several boxes for pasalubong but was disappointed because there were very few products left to buy because according to them hundreds had already been there to buy their famous hopia. I just settled on hopia monggo and baboy because there were no more hopia ube available. We enjoyed the place though. The next place we visited was the Binuatan weaving where I tried to weave. The people there were so accommodating assisting us and patiently teaching us how to do the weaving. Their products were so colorful and I honor them for their creativity in using grass fibers endemic to their place. One of our companions asked if we could drop by at TESDA for a photo op with a Transformer Robot which transforms into a green and yellow Willys Jeep and we did had a robotic moment. We passed by the baywalk as we headed to Tiangge to buy pasalubong. They laughed at me because they thought i was going to buy the whole Puerto Prinsesa. I couldn't help myself because I wasn't sure when I'd be coming back. If I couldn't bring my family to Palawan, I'd bring Palawan to them. But their products were cheap enough so I was able to buy what i think I need to. I regretted not visiting the Cathedral because some in our group needed to go home for their dinner date and it was already 7:00PM. The van brought us to the House of Big Brother and we thanked Lotlot,the day's tour guide, for a grand day. 
 Rodel, Aileen, Bobot and I prepared for dinner and decided to dine at  Balinsasayaw, a famous resto serving nido soup or bird's nest soup. We enjoyed our last night together and went home satisfied and in anticipation to going home the next day. We packed our things and slept early for  the next day's flight.

    Going to the airport brought feelings of loneliness that the vacation had to end but of great thanksgiving that we were allowed by God to experience His infinite love through His creation. We had breakfast at Jollibee before proceeding to the airport. We were just on time and did not wait that long before Zest Air gate opened. With hearts filled with joy for the whole experience we stepped inside the plane and promised ourselves that we'll be back again some time soon to have another series of jump shots on Palawan shores.   



Monday, August 8, 2011

Great Things in Small Boxes

     Count your blessings instead of sheep. This is one true statement I cherish because God is a generous God. He never fails to amuse me and to make me smile everyday. In fact, through a very tiny ant, He'll show me He cares. I believe simplest things which draw laughter are God's tickles. I'd like to count His blessings by creating a list of amusing, tiny, unbelievable or the most ordinary ways  which make me feel I'm blessed because I'm alive.


1. Butterflies all over the place- makes me feel like a child again
2. My nephew's chuckle
3. My husband rubbing my itchy back
4. Food particle stuck between my teeth which came off after several attempts of removing it
5. A clean comfort room
6. A faucet with clear generous flow of water  coming out of it
7. Landbank ATM on-line with no line
8. A slice of blueberry cheese cake  




9. A fresh, soft and fragrant blanket
10. A fresh, soft and fragrant pillowcase
11. Mosquito net under my feet
12. A powerhug with my husband
13. A smooch from my nephew and little cousins
14. Receiving a bouquet of flowers
15. A free meal
16. White kitkat  
17. Lots of 25 centavos for Pondong Batangan
18. Wonderboy chips
19. Sound of Music movie 
20. Hearing one of my fave songs on the radio
21. Paid bills
22. Mountain view on my bedside window 
23. A moonlight sky
24. Christmas nightsky
25. Christmas giftwrapping
26. A sharpened pencil
27. A ballpen emptied up to the end
28. A fan on a very hot day
29. An umbrella when it rains
30. An available loperamide when my tummy aches
31. My headache balm
32. Great relief from migraine after vomiting
33. Sleeping time
34. Finishing a good book
35. A seat on the bus
36. Finishing a rosary 


37. Waking up with my husband hugging me
38. Getting well from a cold
39. Having a cup of coffee  in the veranda
40. My planted plants growing 
41. Seeing people use paper bags instead of plastics
42. A sweet corn with butter and salt
43. Penoy balot or balot
44. Hot pan de sal
45. A company-seeking officemate asking for prayer for this intention
46. A feeling of newly-brushed teeth
47. An ice cream recipe sold
48. Regular bowel movement
49. A clean pair of sleeping wear
50. Goldfish in my aquarium while feeding
51. Raindrops on leaves


52. My husband's contagious laughter
53. Finding a lost item when you're not even looking for it
54. Trying a new recipe
55. Buying the shoes I really want and finding out its the last pair, as if its meant to be mine
56. Magnoila chocolait
57. Newly rebond/fixed hair
58. Wearing my favorite necklace
59. Seeing highshcool friends in the facebook
60. Meeting persons with same name as I am
61. Finding old photographs from an unchartered place in the house
62. Reading old letters and cards
63. Screaming at the top of my lungs just to relax
64. Somebody telling me I'm beautiful
65. A pat on my back
66. Precious Moments characters
67. A flower in bloom
68. Hot nai cha
69. Weddings
70. A swan on a pond
71.Watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S
72. Watching E.R.
73. Watching Ally McBeal
74. MacGyver memories
75. Last  coins in my wallet
76. A visit in the Blessed Sacrament
77. An infant touching my arm
78. Letting go of my money in the offertory basket
79. Lying on the bed after work
80. Putting my nephew to sleep
81. A free massage while in the salon
82. Strolling while eating ice cream
83. A cool wind blowing my face
84. Smell of a newly cut grass
85. Somebody whistling a fine tune
86. Seeing what's below when aboard an airplane
87. White wash made by boats


88. Cascading water


89. Being offered a pair of slippers  on a cold floor
90. Mango tree filled with fruits


91. A ricefield
92. A beach view
93. My husband rubbing my foot
94. Stubborn stains between my fingernails removed by using kamias/kalamias
95.Pancake House mango shake 
96. Killing a mosquito in one attempt
97. Pot-pot of Pan De Sal vendor in the morning
98. Receiving post mail
99. Underarm hair being plucked
100. Seeing dy massaging inay's foot
101. Evening snack with my family
102. A dinner with close friends
103. Arranging surprise party for a friend or being part of it
104. Colorful balloons


105. A Japanese garden
106. The feel of fine sand under my feet
107. Hearing Angelus over the radio or it being recited in the mall
108. A cloud forming an object 
109. Sun rays through the clouds


110. Dancing anime characters in the videoke
111. Disney's Chip and Dale
112. Seeing Smurfs again
113. A new-born niece
114. A dew drop on a leaf
115. Kayaking with mu hubby
116. Old photgraphs
117. My 37-year old baby dress worn by my niece


118. Pinterest.com


119. Blue retractable Pilot ballpen
120. A striped caterpillar on a leaf-A promise of a new butterfly 





The list will go on and on and I intend to keep this list for as long as I see His greatness in small packages. In every opportunity will I thank Him.



Sunday, August 7, 2011

A Girl's Prayer for His Boyfriend



I can't remember who gave this to me but this prayer stayed inside my wallet for years now. I guess this simple prayer helped my boyfriend (now, my husband) and me to stay together for so long until we got married last year.


Heavenly Father, Full of Grace
Bless my boyfriend's handsome face
Bless his hair that kind'a curls.


Bless his hands which are strong,
May they stay where they belong
Bless his eye which tend to roam
Keep them from seeing what is not shown.


Bless this guy I'll always miss
Bless his lips I love to kiss
Bless his arms that hold me tight
Bless his body that feels so right
If ever he'd read this prayer of mine
Bless the thought that would enter his mind.


AMEN.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Moments with the Savior

       I had a book entitled "Moments with the Savior" by Ken Gire. This has become my favorite book. It really made me experience Christ because it brought me to the scenes as if they're exactly happening in front of me. Its as if I could touch Jesus. I could feel His emotions and I could see how He sees us. I saw how unbelieving and continually doubting we, His disciples were. Many times I saw myself as a child in the scenes. Quiet. Observing. Feeling. I saw how a widow wept when her son died but Jesus woke him up. I understood why a lady with a jug fetched water from the well every afternoon. I had a high regard for Nicodemus after he sought Jesus at night. I realized why a woman was accused as adulterer-its because they were spying on her waiting for the moment not to trap her but to trap Jesus. It was the loyalty of his friends which made an impact to me when a man was forced  through the roof inside the house where Jesus was healing and preaching. It was Barttemeus' faith which healed him. These are just few moments with Him. I was there.  I was drawn there by Ken Gire's full description of the details. How he analyzed every movement or every word said is just so brilliant. I was grateful for talented people like him who brings Jesus closer to me. Its too close in fact  that I could touch His cloak.  
      This book also inspired me to do some role-playing  during our household meetings or in one of our chapter meetings before. Each one of us would be given a character in a scene depicting Jesus  life. An apostle, a Pharisee or a priest who went against Jesus, an unbeliever, a follower, a bystander or an onlooker, etc. Then somebody would read the gospel. The gospel would be read again but this time, everyone would close their eyes and imagine themselves in the scene internalizing their respective characters. The gospel would be read up to four times. The results were just remarkable. Everyone, had a glimpse of the past. They felt what their characters really felt. I praise God for that. I hope we can do that again so we can understand fully how the apostles lived and how they felt when they were with Jesus. This will also help us in analyzing ourselves if and when somebody we know ( or don't ) will tell us one day that he is the Messiah. What will our reactions be? How are we going to feel. I am sure none of us will believe. Because during their time, very few people believed that Jesus is the Messiah. Even His disciples doubted at one point. 
     As for the book, I already finished it a few years ago. But it's worth rereading. It makes me know Him more and more. It makes me see myself as a believer much more.

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Chivalry Endangered

Scenario 1:     Minsan, galing kami sa fiesta ng officemate namin sa Magallanes, Cavite. Sakay kami sa kotse ng boss namin. May naunang sasakyan sa amin at malayo ito sa amin. Pero dahil mabilis ang takbo namin, naabutan namin ito. At laking gulat namin dahil may isang magandang babae, sexy, long hair, naka-red na blouse at blue jeans na nakaupo sa  hagdan sa may estribo ng jeep. Nagtataka kami kasi mabilis din naman ang takbo ng jeep at nakaporma ang babae na ito. Bakit sya nakaupo sa me estribo? Sabi ng officemate ko na tag-roon sa lugar, ganun daw talaga pag puno na ang jeep, pinauupuan na ang entrance ng jeep, konti lang daw kasi ang nabyahe. Pero kung titingnan mo ang loob ng jeep, may mga lalaki na maayos na nakaupo sa loob nito. Bakit walang nag-offer ng upuan nya sa kawawang magandang babae?
Scenario 2:     Isang gabi sa paguwi ko mula trabaho, nahirapan ako sumakay ng jeep dahil bihira ang bumibyahe sa dahilang di ko alam. Kaya naman siksikan at unahan sa pagsakay ang mga tao. At nung nakasakay na ako (sa wakas!), madaling napuno ang jeep at kung kaya ang isang college student na ito ay napilitang bumitin na lang sa jeep. Dahil may dala syang clutch bag at dalawa pang plastic bag, nagmagandang-loob ako na pansamantalang hawakan muna ang mga bitbit ny para makakapit syang maayos. Ang estudyanteng ito, ay parang nagulat at nagtaka sa gesture ko. Natigilan sya at tumanggi sya at sabi nya ok lang daw sya. Ha? Ni-reject ang pagtulong ko? Hayun, hirap na hirap syang bitbitin ang mga dala nya sa isang kamay habang nakakapit ang isang kamay sa estribo. Di ko na inulit ang offer ko kasi baka mareject na naman ako. Naisip ko, mukha bang dudukutan ko ang gamit nya para di tanggapin ang tulong ko o ignorante sya na me ganitong kultura ang mga mananakay ng jeep?
 Scenario 3:     Noong galing kami sa isang training sa Manila ng officemate ko, nagtaxi kami papunta sa Buendia sa terminal ng bus pa-Lucena. Madami kami dala dahil bukod sa maleta, may laptop at shoulder bag pa kami pareho. Kaya hirap kami sa pagbababa ng gamit mula sa taxi. May isang mama na patakbo kami nilapitan at tinulungang magdala ng gamit namin sa bus. Matutuwa na sana ako at handa na magpa-thank you nang biglang sumahod sya at humingi ng bayad. Ha, si Mang Gustin ka ba, ang superhero na pwedeng arkilahin?
     Sa mga ganitong pagkakataon, maiisip mo, bakit nga ba bihira na ang mga lalaki na nag-ooffer ng upuan sa bus kahit may mga babaeng nakatayo sa gitna nito. Kung kaya nga sobra akong natutuwa sa tuwing may nagmamagandang-loob magpaupo sa mga babaeng nakatayo sa bus, o sa jeep o sa simbahan. O kaya naman e ako na ang nagpapasiksik sa bus sa nakatayong babae kahit na 2-seater lang ang kinauupuan ko. Maaring sasabihin ng iba na unfair ako na itreat ang mga lalaki. Hindi naman. Kasi naiinis din ako sa kapwa ko babae na hindi man lang umusog para makaupo nang maayos ang sumasakay sa jeep kahit na matanda pa ito. At sa mga babae na di mo man mapakisuyuan na iabot sa driver ang bayad mo. Ganun na rin sa mga babae na hindi naman marunong magpasalamat sa mga nagpapakagentleman sa kanila. Bakit nga ba ganun na ngayon?
    Dati kasi nung bata pa ako, bihira pa ang sasakyan, marami ang sumasabit na lalaki sa jeep. Ang mga babae ang halos lahat na nakaupo. Nakakahiya pa nga ata kung ikaw lang ang lalaking nakaupo dun. At ang babae na nasa loob, kakilala ka man o hindi ang magiging tagapaghawak ng gamit na dala ng lalaking nakabitin. Walang pagaalala na baka hindi na ibalik ang gamit nya. Nag-aagawan na nga ata sa pasahero ang mga jeep kaya bihirang mapuno at umawas ng tao kaya di na rin nasanay sa ganitong set-up nag mga lalaki lalo na ang kabataan ngayon. At dati mura pa ang pamasahe kaya ngayon, mas gusto i-enjoy ng mga tao ang binayaran nilang pamasahe sa bus lalo na kung aircon ito. Bakit nga ba sila magtitiis na tumayo e bayad na sila at nauna silang sumakay. Isa pa, kelangan nila matulog sa byahe kasi maaga sila gumising para pumasok sa trabaho.
     Dati rin, ang mga lalaki kahit tambay sa kanto lang ang gawain sa maghapon, kung may makita silang ale na maraming dala una-unahan sila sa pagtulong. Pagtulong. Hindi pagkakargador na me kapalit na bayad. Sa eskwelahan ko natutunang Good Moral at Right Conduct o GMRC na unang lecture sa umaga. Ngayon ba may ganito pa rin? Bakit kaunti na lang ata ang boyscouts at girl scouts? Hindi ba ito requirement? O hindi lang siguro naisasabuhay ang itinurong "laging handa"? Naturuan pa ba ng mga magulang ang mga anak nila ng ugaling makatulong sa kapwa. O baka di siguro nila nakikita sa mga magulang nila ang ganito? 
At ito ang narealize ko. Na marami sa mga kabataan ngayon ang di talaga naturuan ng tamang paraan ng pagiging gentleman. Marami akong mga brothers sa community na may kakulangan sa gentlemanly ways. Dahil totoong hindi nila alam kung paano. Di nila alam na kailangang pagbuksan ng pinto ang mga babae, girlfriend man nya ito o hindi. Na dapat mauna sa kanya sumakay ng jeep ang babae at sa pagbaba naman e dapat mauna sya para maalalayan nya sa pagbaba ang babae. Na kailangan pala nilang tulungan sa mabigat na bitbitin ang mga babae. Na dapat nasa danger zone sila pag magkasabay sila naglalakad sa malapit sa kalsada at hahawakan sa siko ang babae pag tatawid ng kalsada.Kung kaya di ko pwede husgahan na ungentleman ang mga lalaki ngayon dahil sa totoo lang marami sa kanila e ignorante dito. Kaya naman sa community namin, sinisikap ko na turuan ang mga brothers tungkol dito. Alam kong minsan ay na-ooffend sil sa akin pero iniisip ko kasi na para rin sa kanila yun. Di ba't mas kaibig-ibig ang lalaking gentleman at hindi lang pogi points ang nadedevelop sa kanila kundi kagandahang asal din na pwede nila ituro sa mga magiging anak nilang lalaki. Baka kasi dumating ang time na magkanya-kanya na lang tayo sa mundo. Walang pakialaman. Muli sanang mabuhay ang bayanihan sa ating mga Pilipino.


     Hep! Tayo namang mga babae, matutong magpasalamat sa mga small gestures of kindness na binibigay sa atin. Minsan kasi nakasimangot tayo  at nagtataray kaya lalo tayo di bigyan ng free seats. Isa pa, wag tayo maarte pag may nagnanais tumulong sa atin, kailangan bang gwapo pa ang tumulong sa atin sa pagtawid sa lansangan. At isa pa, sa mga may boyfriend naman, please naman, wag nyo namang ipabitbit sa nobyo nyo ang shoulder bag nyo kung hindi ka naman mababalian ng buto sa gaan nito lalo na kung ladies bag at me kulay pa ito. Minsan nakasukbit pa ito sa balikat nila. Masagwa tingnan ito sa kanila.Gusto natin ng gentleman, hindi ng lady.  Pinagmumukha nating alangan ang katayuan ng mga partners natin. Ok lang kung kasinglaki ng unan ang bag  mo at superbigat nito at kung may anak kayo at kailangan talagang sya magdala ng bag mo.


Sa ganang akin, pipilitin ko na lang na turuan ang mga taong malalapit sa akin. Mahirap kasing pumuna nang pumuna sa ibang tao kasi maaaring hindi lang sila talaga na-train sa ganito. Sabi ko sa sarili ko, pag nagkaanak ako tuturuan ko sya na unahin ang kapakanan ng iba bago sya para tumimo sa kanya ang tunay na kahulugan ng bayanihan. Alam kong higit na makakatulong sa akin ang asawa ko. Proud ako kasi me gentleman akong asawa.Di ako natatakot na mauubos na ang mga chivalrous men sa mundo. Tiwala din ako sa community namin kasi nakikita ko na ang mga SFCs at YFCs ay may ganitong magandang character. Alam kong dadami pa ang lahing marunong sa bayanihan.